Pentecostal Sermons and Bible Studies by Pastor Jim Feeney, Ph.D.

The Narcissism of Nonstop Me-Me-Me Selfies

Summary:  “Look at ME with my trendy new clothes” … “This is a shot of ME surfing at Malibu” … “Here’s a selfie of ME and my friends having a night on the town.” And therein lies a big problem. This describes millions of Americans, including many Christians, and their focus on “living life large” for their own self-fulfillment. Sadly, I see this attitude also in some of the songs that pass for Christian music today, so-called worship songs whose lyrics are saturated with “I … I … me … my … mine …” The focus too often is “What’s in it for me?” rather than directing our attention onto Almighty God and His Son Jesus.

Please don’t tune me out here. I’m speaking of a widespread dysfunction in American Christianity today. Too many believers have succumbed in their lifestyles to the “selfie” mentality that saturates our TV shows and other media — "I've got my rights! ... I'm gonna do my thing ... You only go around once in life; do it with gusto!" and similar ego-centered thinking. Tragically, this trend is entirely contrary to Jesus’ declaration that he who
exalts himself shall be humbled” (Luke 4:11) and the Bible’s command that we be “not looking to [our] own interests but each of you to the interests of the others” (Philippians 2:4).

Disclaimer: In my title above I'm not criticizing the normal taking of self-photos ('selfies') of family outings, meeting with a friend, cute shots of you and your kids, and many other similar wholesome photos. I'm referring to the clearly antibiblical attitude underlying the "look at" selfies that I see more and more in our society. Those speak of an attitude that can destroy your life. Now let's look beyond the me-me-me selfies themselves to underlying attitudes for good or bad biblically.

John 1:29, 35f
  The next day John [the Baptist] saw Jesus coming toward him and said, Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!” … [35f] The next day…when he saw Jesus passing by, he said, “Look, the Lamb of God!”

John 3:30, NASB  [John the Baptist said of Jesus] He must increase, but I must decrease.

While Jesus was still relatively unknown in Israel, John the Baptist was drawing large crowds to his preaching and baptizing. Jesus said that there was no greater prophet than John (Luke 7:28, KJV).

Then one day Jesus came to where John was baptizing, and that prophet of great fame immediately deflected the attention of the people to the Greater One, Jesus. “Behold, the Lamb of God! … Look, the one who takes away the sin of the world!” This great prophet John’s holy attitude was that he must decrease, while focusing the people’s attention fully on Jesus the Savior of the sinful world. The prophet John's character was one of selflessness, not of “self…me…look at me.”

James 4:4, Amplified  You adulteresses [disloyal sinners—flirting with the world and breaking your vow to God]! Do you not know that being the world’s friend [that is, loving the things of the world] is being God’s enemy? So whoever chooses to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.

1 John 2:15  Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them.

Friendship with the world (“flirting with the world”), said the apostle James, makes you an enemy of God! The apostle John adds that if we love the world, that is evidence that love for God the Father is not in us.

Now please understand, I am not against all selfies. Nice photos of you and your family on a fun vacation, for example, can be delightful, lasting memories. What I am saying is that a “self” overemphasis in any area of our lives is a dangerous, harmful practice. It focuses on us, rather than on the Lord. Jesus Himself reminded His disciples that they were “IN the world … [but] not OF the world” (John 17:16, 18). As Paul wrote, “our citizenship is in heaven” (Philippians 3:20). And the apostle Peter added that we are strangers and pilgrims in this world (1 Peter 2:11, KJV). Ask yourself: Do I live my life in that heavenly perspective?

Luke 9:23  Then [Jesus] said to them all: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.

We must never forget that Jesus the Son of God left the glories of heaven and came to earth to die for us and for our sins, so that we can in turn die to self, serve Him wholeheartedly, and one day leave earth for the glories of heaven! What an exchange! Jesus died (and rose again) for us. In turn we die daily to self, serve Him devotedly, and at our death we join Him in the indescribable, eternal glories of heaven. That perspective is a selfless one, and it reflects our Savior’s selfless sacrifice of Himself for us.

Acts 1:5, 8  [Jesus told His disciples] “…you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit” … [8] you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”

That must be our focus and our passion in this life: to be Jesus’ witnesses. In our words. In sharing our testimony with others. In the entirety of our conduct and lifestyle we should be pointing others to the blameless and only Savior of the world, the Lord Jesus Christ.

James 4:15b  What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.

In comparison to where we will spend eternity, God’s Word reminds us that our earthly life is “a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” That thought should compel us to make the most of our time on earth. We should spend our few short years denying self and our carnal cravings, serving God, and pointing others to the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. And then one day as we draw our final breath, Jesus will welcome us into a glorious eternity: “Well done, good and faithful servant! Come and share your Master’s happiness!” (Matthew 5:21, 23)

Colossians 1:18, NKJV  …that in all things He may have the preeminence.

Colossians 3:17  And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus.

A life well spent on earth is not one of pleasing self. It is a lifelong quest that “in all things … [in] whatever you do,” you do it all for Jesus Christ with the goal of Him being preeminent in every single facet of your time on earth. The eternal rewards are far beyond all that you can ask or imagine. Live your life now in the light of eternity!


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